“What? How can that be?” you ask. “You’re a writer! Isn’t that what writers do?”
I wish I could tell you what’s keeping me from doing what I need to do. But I don’t have any answers at this point.
In fact, I’m not even sure I have anything of substance to offer anyone now. But I’m just going to write—and hope something helpful surfaces. Anything is better than nothing at this point.
After church this morning, I confessed to my husband that I hadn’t really felt like going to church today and entering into worship. But I did. And I’m glad I did—the sermon really spoke to my heart. Thanks, Pastor Shawn.
I’m also reminded what I learned years ago in a behavior modification class at seminary, “You must act your way into feeling.”
At first, I didn’t have a clue what the professor meant by that statement. But I tried it, and it worked.
For instance, I NEVER feel like doing housework. But I ALWAYS feel good about finishing my work.
So, that’s what I’m doing right now. Writing—even though I do NOT feel like writing. And in the process, I hope and pray the feeling and the words begin to flow again.
Have you ever faced this problem? Maybe you’re not a writer, and you don’t get it. But perhaps there is another issue you might be struggling with in your work or even at home.
Maybe you want to be happy or thankful, but you just can’t conjure up those positive emotions right now. Or perhaps you just don’t “feel” like being anyone’s mom right now—but you ARE a mom.
Maybe you don’t have any romantic feelings toward your spouse anymore. I’ll share what a pastor advised one man who claimed he didn’t love his wife anymore. This wise counselor simply quoted a scripture to this battle-weary warrior.
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her . . . (Eph. 5:25 NIV).
Do you see his point? God’s Word reveals that love is a choice, not a feeling.
So, maybe—just maybe—we can experience joy and thankfulness as we make the decision to be happy or grateful.
What about writing? Well, I’ve learned that often, I really don’t “feel” like writing. And many times I must just to do what I don’t “feel” like doing.
So, I guess I’ll just repeat the words of a wise writing instructor to myself once again, “JUST WRITE!”
By the way, I hope my confession encourages you today to do whatever you need to do if you’re stuck!
And another thing—be blessed!
Tell us about a time when you had to act your way into feeling? Share your experience in the comments below or on my Facebook page.